March 10th, 2026
I got this DM after publishing The Unicorn Hire Trap:
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“I think I need your advice so that I don’t repeat the unicorn hire trap!”
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Sarah (name changed) had just received notice that her long-term EA was moving on. Jessica had been with her for seven years, handling everything from graphic design to CRM management to social media to client communications.
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Sarah’s first instinct? “I need to find someone who can do all of this.”
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Here’s what makes hiring so stressful for most founders: Unless you came from an HR background, you’re making high-stakes decisions without the training to make them well. You know you need help. You just don’t know if you’re hiring one person, two people, or building an entire team.
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Before I share what Sarah and I worked through together, let me ask you this…
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Think about the role you’re trying to fill (or have been avoiding filling) and answer these questions:
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Quick interpretation:
Checked 1-2 skill categories: This is probably one roleΒ
Checked 3-4 skill categories: This might be 2 rolesΒ
Checked 5+ skill categories: This is definitely 3+ rolesΒ
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Bonus red flags: If you also checked 7+ tools, or both creative + technical work, or both execute + strategize, your unicorn risk just went up.
Sarah checked 6 skill categories when we did this exercise together.β
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Her departing EA, Jessica, had been doing:
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Sarah’s assumption: “I need to find one person to replace Jessica.”β
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The reality: Jessica had been doing the work of 3-4 distinct specialists.
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Here’s what we did next.
I created a custom worksheet that walked through every responsibility from Sarah’s original job description. We mapped each task across four critical dimensions:
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When we broke down those 6 skill categories, we found:β
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The Scope Calculator
After identifying the must-haves, we did something most people skip: we calculated the actual hours.
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Student Core Focus (9.5 hours/week):
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This exercise revealed two critical things:
Me: “When I look at these priorities, the common thread is visual work – formatting slides, creating social graphics, designing documents, choosing website photos. That requires someone with a good eye for design who’s willing to use platforms like Canva and WordPress. The admin tasks? Those are easier to hire for separately if needed.”
Sarah: “I’m not looking for a generalist who can do everything. I’m looking for a graphic design specialist who doesn’t mind doing some admin?”
Me: “Exactly. And if you try to hire for ‘everything,’ you’ll either get no applicants or the wrong applicants. But if you lead with design as the core skill and treat the rest as secondary, you’ll attract the right person.”
What Sarah actually needed:
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Not a unicorn. Not even a “versatile generalist.”
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A Graphic Design Specialist who:
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And if the design specialist wasn’t interested in admin tasks? Sarah could hire a separate VA for just the executive support work – a much easier (and less expensive) role to fill than trying to find one person who excels at both creative and administrative work.
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Everything else (technical systems, advanced automations, complex project coordination) either:
When someone has been in a role for 5+ years, they’ve usually grown into capabilities that weren’t there on day one. They’ve learned your systems, your clients, your preferences. They’ve built institutional knowledge that has made them exponentially more valuable over time.
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You can’t hire that on day one.
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What you can do is get clear on what the role actually requires today, break it into its component parts, prioritize ruthlessly, and make strategic decisions about how to cover each part.
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For Sarah, that meant leading with the skill that was hardest to replace (design) and finding creative solutions for everything else.
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That’s not settling. That’s smart hiring.
If you’re in the middle of figuring out your next hire, I’m happy to give you some quick direction.
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Talk soon,
Moriah
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P.S. If you missed the original article, you can read it here: The Unicorn Hire Trap. It breaks down why looking for one person to fill multiple specialist roles usually costs you more – in time, money, and team frustration.